{{short description|Form of erotic humiliation}} '''Small penis humiliation''' ('''SPH''') is a form of verbal erotic humiliation involving the penis, in which someone degrades another person's penis. The practice may involve sexual acts or just the verbal humiliation itself; it may take place in public or in private.
Those who enjoy receiving SPH do not necessarily have small penises.<ref name="marieclaire">{{cite web |url=https://www.marieclaire.com.au/my-secret-sex-diary-small-penis-humiliation |title=My secret sex diary: "my boyfriend wants me to humiliate him over his size" |last= |first= |publisher= |website=Marie Claire |date=28 November 2017}}</ref> They like the idea of being humiliated and having the penis treated as useless, especially involving penis size-related offenses or mocking the penis in general. Some women get sexually aroused by the power to be the ultimate judge of a man's penis and to humiliate him.<ref name="kinkly">{{cite web |url=https://www.kinkly.com/cocktail-weenies-small-penis-humiliation-101/2/530 |title=Cocktail Weenies: Small Penis Humiliation 101 |last=Lizard |first=Sophie |publisher= |date=May 20, 2013 |website=Kinkly }}</ref> For many, weakening the sense of manhood imposed by society can be erotic.<ref name="vice">{{cite web |url=https://www.vice.com/en/article/small-penis-humiliation-masculinity-trump/ |title=What you learn about masculinity from making fun of men's small dicks for a living |last=Corvid |first=Margaret |publisher= |date=August 28, 2016 |website=Vice }}</ref>
SPH is often associated with cuckoldry when the submissive is rejected and humiliated with the argument that they cannot satisfy their partner with their penis, or that their penis is not large enough to pleasure anyone.<ref name="metro">{{cite web |url=https://metro.co.uk/2018/01/10/what-is-small-penis-humiliation-a-beginners-guide-to-sph-fetish-7203554/ |title=What is small penis humiliation? A beginner's guide to SPH fetish |last=Kane |first=Miranda |publisher= |date=January 10, 2018 |website=Metro }}</ref> Some relate SPH to feminization as well, and even compare the submissive's penis size to the size of a clitoris during humiliation, although this way of degrading the penis is not widely accepted by all who engage in SPH, some of whom argue that female genitalia should not be a way of insulting the penis.<ref name="vice" />
Small penis humiliation may also occur online. Someone may post pictures of their penis on the internet for the purpose of being mocked.<ref name="cosmopolitan">{{cite web |url=https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a49749/small-penis-humiliation-fetish/ |title=3 men talk about why they're obsessed with their small penises |last=King-Slutzky |first=Johannah |publisher= |website=Cosmopolitan |date=November 24, 2015}}</ref><ref name="mamamia">{{cite web |url=https://www.mamamia.com.au/small-penis-humilation/ |title=NSFW: Men with tiny penises answer all your questions. |last=Rogue |first=Mamamia |publisher= |website=Mamamia |date=June 12, 2015}}</ref> In many cases, there is a BDSM session via webcam, where the dominant humiliates the submissive through the video.<ref name="webcam">{{cite web |url=https://webcamstartup.com/small-penis-humiliation-sph-webcam-shows/ |title=How to do 'Small Penis Humiliation' (SPH) webcam shows |last=Love |first=Aerie |publisher= |website=Webcam Startup |date=February 27, 2017}}</ref>
==See also== *Small penis rule
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