{{Short description|Variation of grieving after a loss}} The terms '''delayed grief''' and '''unresolved grief''' are variations of grieving after a loss. The meaning of ''unresolved grief'' is any aspect of grieving that has yet to be resolved.
==Overview== In cases of delayed grief, the reaction to the loss is postponed until a later time, even years later, and might be triggered by a seemingly unrelated event, such as a recent divorce<ref name="JWW">''Grief Counselling and Grief Therapy: A Handbook'' by James William Worden, 2003, [https://books.google.com/books?id=9qAsvt4ExgMC&pg=PA46 p. 46].</ref> or even the death of a pet, but with reactions excessive to the current situation.
The delayed grief may manifest as any of the reactions in normal grief: pangs of intense yearning, spasms of distress, short bouts of hysterical laughter, tearful or uncontrolled sobbing, feeling of hopelessness, restlessness, insomnia, preoccupation with thoughts about the loved one, extreme and unexplained anger, or general feelings of depression. In extreme cases, reaction may invoke suicidal tendencies.
The term "delayed grief" is also used to describe a ''pattern'' in which symptoms of distress, seeking, yearning (etc.), are occurring at a much later time period than is typical.<ref name="NCI">"Bereavement, Mourning, and Grief", U.S. National Cancer Institute, web: [http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/supportivecare/bereavement/HealthProfessional/page4 Cancer-gov-HP-4]. </ref> Delayed grief refers to any reaction that occurs later than usual, as a delayed onset of symptoms.<ref name="MacE">"Grief", ''Macmillan Encyclopedia of Death and Dying'', p. 28, Findarticles.com.</ref> Contrast to the term "complicated grief"<ref name=MacE/> as meaning a form of grieving that spans years (see full description at: Grief).
==Examples== In a 1987 study, of 135 people with cancer, who were referred for psychological counseling, 76% of them reported a previous grief experience, and 60% of the cancer patients still had unresolved grief from prior losses.<ref name="NCBI">{{cite journal |pmid=3684749 |year=1987 |last1=Vachon |first1=ML |title=Unresolved grief in persons with cancer referred for psychotherapy |volume=10 |issue=3 |pages=467–86 |journal=The Psychiatric Clinics of North America|doi=10.1016/S0193-953X(18)30555-0 }}</ref>
==See also== * Anticipatory grief * Complicated grief disorder * Disenfranchised grief * Prolonged grief disorder * Compounded grief<ref>https://www.choosingtherapy.com/cumulative-grief/</ref>
==References== {{Reflist}}
==Further reading== *{{cite book |last1=Lewis |first1=C. S. |title=A Grief Observed by CS Lewis |date=2009 |publisher=HarperCollins |location=Toronto |isbn=978-0-06-194928-9}} *{{cite book |last1=HICKMAN |first1=MARTHA WHITMORE |title=Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations For Working Through Grief |date=1994 |publisher=Harper Collins |location=Nashville}} *{{cite book |last1=Malone |first1=Pamela A. |title=Counseling Adolescents Through Loss, Grief, and Trauma |date=2016 |publisher=Routledge |location=New York |isbn=978-0-203-69963-8 |url=https://www.pdfdrive.com/counseling-adolescents-through-loss-grief-and-trauma-e175313783.html}} *{{cite book |last1=Worden |first1=J. William |title=Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy |date=2009 |publisher=Springer |location=New York |isbn=978-0-8261-2456-2 |edition=4th}}
Category:Grief