Mary Pipher

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'''Mary Elizabeth Pipher''' (born October 21, 1947), also known as '''Mary Bray Pipher''', is an American clinical psychologist and author. Her books include ''A Life in Light: Meditations on Impermanence'' (2022)<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.wbur.org/hereandnow/2022/06/30/mary-pipher-a-life-in-light|title=Reviving Ophelia' author Mary Pipher's new memoir highlights joy in the bleakest times|date=2022-06-30|website= WBUR:Here and Now|access-date=2022-06-30}}</ref> and ''Women Rowing North'' (2019), a book on aging gracefully.<ref>{{Cite news|url=https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/12/opinion/sunday/women-older-happiness.html|title=Opinion {{!}} The Joy of Being a Woman in Her 70s|last=Pipher|first=Mary|date=2019-01-12|work=The New York Times|access-date=2019-01-23|language=en-US|issn=0362-4331}}</ref><ref>{{Cite news|url=https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-new-take-on-women-and-aging-11547054338|title=A New Take on Women and Aging|last=Ansberry|first=Clare|date=2019-01-09|work=The Wall Street Journal|access-date=2019-03-13|language=en-US|issn=0099-9660}}</ref> Prior to that, she wrote ''The Green Boat: Reviving Ourselves in Our Capsized Culture'' (2013) and the bestseller ''Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls'' (1994).

Pipher received a Bachelor of Arts degree in anthropology from the University of California, Berkeley in 1969 and a PhD in clinical psychology from the University of Nebraska–Lincoln in 1977. She was a Rockefeller Scholar in Residence at Bellagio in 2001. She received two American Psychological Association Presidential Citations. She returned the one she received in 2006 as a protest against the APA's acknowledgment that some of its members participate in controversial interrogation techniques at Guantánamo Bay and at US "black sites".<ref>{{cite news|last=Young|first =JoAnne|title=Pipher returns award in protest|newspaper=Lincoln Journal Star|date=August 23, 2007|url=http://journalstar.com/articles/2007/08/23/news/local/doc46ccf4d458103603645050.txt|accessdate=2007-08-26}}</ref>

Pipher participates actively in Nebraska state legislature and voices her opinion through letters to the editor of the ''Lincoln Journal Star''. She wrote an essay for ''The New York Times'' about the difficulty of Nebraska's mixed political views and need for more progressive politicians. She strongly opposes the Keystone XL Pipeline<ref>{{Cite web|url = http://0-infoweb.newsbank.com.library.unl.edu/resources/doc/nb/news/152DB996B8C92BA0?p=NewsBank|title = Log in|website = 0-infoweb.newsbank.com.library.unl.edu|access-date = 2016-03-16}}{{Dead link|date=January 2026 |bot=InternetArchiveBot }}</ref> and supported the Nebraska Legislative Bill 802, the purpose of which was to create a state task force to combat climate change, calling it "an opportunity to educate and work through problems relating to climate change."<ref>{{Cite web|url = http://0-infoweb.newsbank.com.library.unl.edu/resources/doc/nb/news/15AD4CA059197210?p=NewsBank|title = Log in|website = 0-infoweb.newsbank.com.library.unl.edu|access-date = 2016-03-16}}{{Dead link|date=January 2026 |bot=InternetArchiveBot }}</ref>

{{as of|2019}} she resides in Lincoln, Nebraska.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://lincolnlibraries.org/bookguide/booklists/nebraska-author-mary-pipher/|title=Nebraska Author Mary Pipher {{!}} Lincoln City Libraries|website=lincolnlibraries.org|access-date=2019-03-13}}</ref>

==''Reviving Ophelia''== Pipher is best known for a book she wrote in 1994, introducing the terms Ophelia complex or Ophelia syndrome, in ''Reviving Ophelia''. There she argued for a view of Shakespeare's character of Ophelia in ''Hamlet'' as lacking inner direction and externally defined by men,<ref>D. Lester, ''Katie's Diary'' (2004) p. 93–5</ref> and suggested that similar external pressures were currently faced by post-pubescent girls.<ref>K. Douglas, ''Life Narratives and Youth Culture'' (2007) p. 160</ref> The danger of the Ophelia syndrome was that of abandoning a rooted childhood self, for an apparently more sophisticated but over-externalized façade self.<ref>D. Lester, ''Katie's Diary'' (2004) p. 95</ref>

'''''Reviving Ophelia 25th Anniversary Edition: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls''''' is a revised and updated book co-written with Dr. Pipher's daughter, Sara Gilliam.

==Selected works== *''Another Country: Navigating the Emotional Terrain of Our Elders'' *''Letters to a Young Therapist'' *''The Middle of Everywhere: The World's Refugees Come to our Town'' *''Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls'' (1994, 2019) ''New York Times'' best seller for over three years<ref>{{cite news|url=https://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=940CE3D7123EF932A35750C0A96E958260&scp=3&sq=Reviving%20Ophelia%20bestseller&st=cse|title=Q&A/Mary T. Alfinito; Early Treatment Can Aid a Troubled Child|author=Donna Greene|date=March 1, 1998|newspaper=The New York Times}}</ref> *''The Shelter of Each Other: Rebuilding Our Families to Enrich Our Lives'' (1997) ''New York Times'' best seller<ref>{{cite news|url=https://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9B02EEDD103DF936A25755C0A961958260|title=PAPERBACK BEST SELLERS: June 15, 1997|newspaper=The New York Times|date=June 15, 1997}}</ref> *''Writing to Change the World'' (2006) *''Seeking Peace: Chronicles of the Worst Buddhist in the World'' (2009) *''The Green Boat: Reviving Ourselves in our Capsized Culture'' (2013) *''Women Rowing North: Navigating Life’s Currents and Flourishing As We Age'' (2019) *''A Life in Light: Meditations on Impermanence'' (2022)

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==External links== *[http://www.marypipher.com/ The Official Website of Mary Pipher, Ph.D.]

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