{{Short description|Trade of purchasing a bride}} {{slavery}} {{Violence against women}} '''Bride buying''' or '''bride purchasing''' is the cultural practice of providing some form of payment in exchange for a bride. The payment may be made to the bride's father, family, or a separate agent. It is the [[converse (logic)|converse]] of a [[dowry]]. Illegal in some countries,{{which?|date=March 2024}} it has a firm foothold in parts of [[Asia]] and [[Africa]]. It may amount to a form of [[slavery]] when treated as a transfer of property from one "owner" to another.
== History == In his ''[[History (Herodotus)|History]]'', [[Herodotus]] reports approvingly of the former [[Babylonia#Neo-Babylonian Empire|Babylonian]] and [[Illyrian Eneti|Illyrian]] custom of holding an annual [[auction]] of each village's young women reaching [[marriageable age]]. He states that the high price of the healthiest and most beautiful was used in part to fund [[dowry|dowries]] for the ugliest and most crippled, each of the latter being given to the man who would legitimately [[marriage in antiquity|marry]] them for the least amount. Despite his praise, he acknowledges the Babylonians discontinued the practice owing to mistreatment of brides, particularly those bought by outsiders, and says that since the [[Fall of Babylon]] to the [[Persian Empire]] the general poverty of the country had led to many fathers [[prostitution in antiquity|prostituting]] their daughters instead of auctioning or marrying them off.<ref>[[Herodotus]], ''[[History (Herodotus)|Hist.]]'', [https://www.perseus.tufts.edu/hopper/text?doc=Hdt.+1.196&fromdoc=Perseus%3Atext%3A1999.01.0126 Book I, Ch. 196].</ref>
One of the first recorded instances of bride-buying in North America can be traced back to 1619 in [[Jamestown, Virginia]].<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.thirteen.org/blog-post/real-wives-jamestown-colony/|title=The Real Housewives of Jamestown|last=Rioseco|first=Hanna|date=May 14, 2018|website=thirteen.org|access-date=2019-02-17}}</ref> The first [[Jamestown, Virginia|Jamestown]] settlers were exclusively [[European Americans|European males]],<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.nps.gov/jame/learn/historyculture/the-first-residents-of-jamestown.htm|title=The First Residents of Jamestown|date=February 26, 2015|website=NPS|access-date=February 18, 2019}}</ref> historian Alf J. Mapp Jr believes this could be due to the belief that "...women had no place in the grim and often grisly business of subduing a continent..."<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.nps.gov/jame/learn/historyculture/the-indispensible-role-of-women-at-jamestown.htm|title=The Indispensable Role of Women at Jamestown|date=February 26, 2015|website=NPS|access-date=February 18, 2019}}</ref> With stories of famine, disease and dissension, the European women feared that leaving [[England]] and traveling to the colony would be of great risk. [[Virginia Company|The Virginia Company]] offered women who chose to leave England in favor of the colony generous incentives such as linens, clothing, a plot of land, and their choice of husband. After a husband was chosen, he would then pay the Virginia Company with 150 pounds (70kg) of "good leaf" tobacco to pay for their bride's passage to the colony. This is how the Jamestown brides earned themselves the nickname the "[[tobacco brides]]".<ref>{{cite web | last=Zug | first=Marcia | title=The Mail-Order Brides of Jamestown, Virginia | website=The Atlantic | date=2016-08-31 | url=https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/08/the-mail-order-brides-of-jamestown-virginia/498083/ }}</ref>
== Mail-order brides == {{Main|Mail-order bride}}
One of the most common forms of modern-day bride-buying is mail-order brides. It is estimated that there are 90 agencies that deal with the selling and purchasing of mail order brides.<ref>{{Cite journal|last=Scholes|first=Robert|date=April 1, 1997|title=How Many Mail-Order Brides?|url=https://cis.org/Report/How-Many-MailOrder-Brides|journal=Immigration Review|volume=28|pages=7–10}}</ref> These agencies have websites that list the addresses, pictures, names and biographies of up to 25,000 women that are seeking husbands, with [[United States|American]] husbands being the most common preference. This fact is also proved by personal stories and experiences of men who have married foreign women.<ref>{{cite web |url=https://medium.com/@ben-from-dreamfiancee/why-chinese-mail-order-brides-choose-american-men-cac71560c2b3 |title=Why Chinese Mail Order Brides Choose American Men |date= February 8, 2024|website=medium.com}}</ref> While there are women listed on these sites from all over the world, the majority of mail-order brides come from [[Russia]] and the [[Philippines]]. According to these agencies,{{where?|date=March 2024}} 10% of women who choose to become mail-order brides are successful and find a husband through their services. The agencies also state that there are around 10,000 mail-order marriages a year, with about 4,000 of these marriages involving men in the [[United States]].<ref>{{cite web |url=https://www.aila.org/File/Related/mailorder-a.pdf |title=THE "MAIL-ORDER BRIDE" INDUSTRY AND ITS IMPACT ON U.S. IMMIGRATION |author=Robert J. Scholes, PhD}}</ref>
== Bride-buying in Asia ==
===China=== Bride-buying is an old tradition in China.<ref name="WallStreet2">Marshall, Samantha, Joanne Lee-Young, and Matt Forney, [http://www.wright.edu/~tdung/bride_vn.htm ''Vietnamese Women Are Kidnapped and Later Sold in China as Brides'', in ''The Wall Street Journal'', Aug. 3, 1999].</ref> The practice was largely stamped out by the [[Chinese Communist Party|current Chinese Communist government]]. However, the modern practice is "not unusual in rural villages"; it is also known as ''mercenary marriage''.<ref>[http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/usa/china/2011-09/02/content_13613124.htm ''Mercenary Marriages Cause Turmoil in C China'' (Xinhua), in ''China Daily USA'', section ''China'', subsection ''Hot Issues'', updated Sep. 2, 2011, 10:46p], as accessed Nov. 9 & 11, 2011.</ref> According to Ding Lu of the [[non-governmental organization]] [[All-China Women's Federation]], the practice had a resurgence due to China's surging economy.<ref name="WallStreet2" /> From 1991 to 1996, Chinese police rescued upwards of 88,000 women and children who had been sold into marriage and slavery, and the Chinese government claimed that 143,000 traffickers involved were caught and prosecuted. Some human rights groups state that these figures are not correct and that the real number of abducted women is higher. Bay Fang and Mark Leong reported in ''[[U.S. News & World Report]]'' that "the government sees the commerce in wives as a shameful problem, it has only in recent years begun to provide any statistics, and it tries to put the focus on the women who have been saved rather than on the continuing trade."<ref name="ChinasStolenWives-USNWR2">{{Cite journal|last1=Fang|first1=Bay|last2=Leong|first2=Mark|year=1998|title=China's stolen wives.|url=http://search.ebscohost.com/login.aspx?direct=true&db=aph&AN=1124645&site=ehost-live|journal=[[U.S. News & World Report]]|volume=125|issue=14|page=35|access-date=17 October 2011}}{{subscription required}}</ref> Causes include poverty and bride shortage in the rural areas (rural women go to the cities to work).<ref name="WallStreet2" /> As women leave rural areas to find work in cities, they are considered more vulnerable to being "tricked or forced into becoming chattel for men desperate for wives."<ref name="ChinasStolenWives-USNWR2" /> The shortage of brides in turn is due to amplification of the traditional preference of Chinese couples for sons by the 1979 [[one-child policy]] in China.<ref name="WallStreet2" /> The Chinese Academy of Social Sciences estimated that in 1998 there were 120 men for every 100 women, with imbalances in rural areas being about 130 males for every 100 females. The increase in the cost of [[Dowry|dowries]] is also a contributing factor leading men to buy women for wives. [[Human Rights in China (organization)|Human Rights in China]] states that it is more affordable for a man to buy a wife from a trafficker for 2,000 to 4,000 yuan than to pay a traditional dowry, which often runs upwards of 10,000 yuan. For the average urban worker, wife selling is an affordable option, since in 1998 at least; China urban workers made approximately $60 a month.<ref name="ChinasStolenWives-USNWR2" /> Brides for sale are outsourced from countries such as [[Women in Burma|Burma]], [[Women in Laos|Laos]], [[Pakistan]],<ref name="BBC">{{cite news |last= Baloch|first= Saher|date=14 May 2019|title=The Pakistani brides being trafficked to China|url=https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-48260397| newspaper=BBC}}</ref> [[Women in Vietnam|Vietnam]] and [[Women in North Korea|North Korea]]. The bride-traders sell women as brides or as prostitutes depending on their physical appearance. A common trick employed by bride-brokers in acquiring brides for sale is the offer of a job such as in factories and instead kidnapping them. Bride-traders can sell a young woman for the price of $250 to $800[[United States dollar|USD]]. US$50 to US$100 of the original price goes to the primary kidnappers while the rest of the income goes to the traffickers who bring the bride to the main client.<ref name="WallStreet2" />
After bearing children, Chinese women who are bought as wives are more prone to staying within the marriage. Fang Yuzhu of the [[China Women's Federation]] credits it with a "strong sense of duty" that Chinese women have, and the idea that it is shameful to leave their husband. Yuzhu also credits that some women might consider their forced marriage a better option to the life of poverty and hard labor they would be subject to upon returning home or the idea that some women may not feel they can find another husband, since they "have already been with one".<ref name="ChinasStolenWives-USNWR2" />
===India=== [[Bride buying in India|Bride buying]] is an old practice in many regions in India.<ref name="Tribune2">Dhaliwal, Sarbjit. [http://www.tribuneindia.com/2003/20030818/main8.htm Bride-buying an old practice in north India], Tribune News Service, August 17, tribuneindia.com</ref> Bride-purchasing is common in the states of India such as [[Haryana]], [[Jharkhand]],<ref name="BBC2">Agal, Renu. [http://newsvote.bbc.co.uk/mpapps/pagetools/print/news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4862434.stm India's 'bride buying' country] {{Webarchive|url=https://archive.today/20130419170755/http://newsvote.bbc.co.uk/mpapps/pagetools/print/news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/4862434.stm |date=2013-04-19 }}, BBC News, April 2006</ref> and [[Punjab, India|Punjab]].<ref name="Tribune2" /> According to [[CNN-IBN]], women are “bought, sold, trafficked, raped and married off without consent”<ref name="CNN2">Sharma, Kavitta and Divya Shah. [https://web.archive.org/web/20121015104005/http://ibnlive.in.com/news/only-in-india-cheaper-to-buy-bride-than-raise-daughter/60766-3.html Only in India: cheaper to buy bride than raise daughter], CNN-IBN, ibnlive.in.com</ref> across certain parts of India. Bride-purchases are usually outsourced from [[Bihar]], [[Assam]], and [[West Bengal]]. The price of the bride (locally known as ''paros'' in [[Jharkhand]]), if bought from the sellers, may cost between 4,000 and 30,000 [[Indian rupee]]s, which is the equivalent of $88 to $660[[United States dollar|USD]].<ref name="BBC2" /> The brides' parents are normally paid an average of 500 to 1,000 Indian rupees (around $11 to $22[[United States dollar|USD]]). The need to purchase a bride arises from the low female-to-male ratio. Such low ratio was caused by the preference to give birth to sons instead of daughters, and [[Female foeticide in India|female foeticide]].<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://pulitzercenter.org/reporting/where-have-indias-females-gone|title=Where Have India's Females Gone?|last=Gierstorfer|first=Carl|date=September 11, 2013|website=pulitzercenter.org|access-date=2019-02-20}}</ref> In 2006, according to [[BBC News]], there were around 861 women for every 1,000 men in Haryana; and the national ratio in India as a whole was 927 women for every 1,000 men. Women are not only purchased as brides or wives, but also as farm workers or househelp. Most women become “[[Sexual slavery|sex-slaves]]”<ref name="BBC2" /> or [[forced laborers]]<ref name="CNN2" /> who are later resold to [[human trafficker]]s<ref name="BBC2" /> to defray the cost.<ref name="CNN2" />
According to Punjabi writer Kirpal Kazak, bride-selling began in Jharkhand after the arrival of the [[Rajput]]s. The tribe decorate the women for sale with ornaments. The practice of the sale of women as brides declined after the [[Green Revolution in India]], the “spread of literacy”, and the improvement of the male-female ratio since 1911. The ratio, however, declined in 2001. The practice of bride-purchasing became confined to the poor sections of society such as farmers, Scheduled Castes, and tribes. In poverty-stricken families, only one son gets married due to poverty and to “avoid the division of landed property”.<ref name="Tribune2" />
=== Korea === Bride-buying in [[North Korea]] is most common due to the great poverty the country suffers and the citizens taking many risks to leave the country.<ref name=":3">{{Cite web|url=https://www.rfa.org/english/news/korea/hrnk-04242009233739.html|title=North Korean Women Sold in China|website=Radio Free Asia |date=29 April 2009 }}</ref> [[Human trafficking|Human traffickers]] take this as an opportunity to traffic desperate [[North Korean women|North Korean]] women across the country's borders to [[China]] not often to sell as slaves, but mainly as brides. Upon arrival and [[Marriage|wedlock]], the women are said to be forced into labor, or [[Sexual abuse|sexual]] and [[physical abuse]] by their Chinese husbands.<ref name=":4">{{Cite web|url=https://www.rfa.org/english/news/in_depth/korea_trafficking-20070216.html|title=Thousands of North Korean Women Sold as Slaves in China|website=Radio Free Asia |date=16 February 2007 }}</ref> Although, there are successful marriages, they hardly ever last because of the illegality of North Korean citizens crossing the border without authorization, despite the women having been in the country for many years neither they nor their offspring are granted citizenship.<ref name=":3" /><ref name=":4" /> As a result, they are arrested and sent back to their homeland or kept in [[China]] to face the consequences of trespassing.<ref name=":4" /> Institutions around the world are requesting China to give refuge to the great number of people who fled [[North Korea]] seeking shelter, however the solicitation has not yet been approved of.<ref name=":3" /> In South Korea, bride-buying is not as common as it is in North Korea, though it still exists in varied ways. The majority of the brides bought in South Korea are from different parts of Asia, largely from the southeast side; in addition, bride-buying internationally in South Korea is claimed to be encouraged as a result of the declining population.<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://www.thedailystar.net/asia/news/skorean-subsidies-encourage-foreign-bride-buying-1703830|title=South Korean subsidies encourage foreign 'bride buying'|date=2019-02-18|website=The Daily Star}}</ref>
=== Vietnam === Bride-buying in [[Vietnam]] has progressed illicitly, becoming the most debauched commercialized industry in recent history, especially around the northern mountain provinces bordering [[China]].<ref>{{Cite journal|last1=Jones|first1=Gavin|last2=Shen|first2=Hsiu-hua|date=2008-02-01|title=International marriage in East and Southeast Asia: trends and research emphases|journal=Citizenship Studies|volume=12|issue=1|pages=9–25|doi=10.1080/13621020701794091|s2cid=145510675|issn=1362-1025 |url=http://scholarbank.nus.edu.sg/handle/10635/110992 }}</ref> Virgin [[Women in Vietnam|Vietnamese women]], from 18 to 25 years old particularly, are targeted by several third-parties known as the quickie matchmaking agencies for East and Southeast Asian men from [[South Korea]], [[Taiwan]], [[China]], [[Malaysia]] and [[Singapore]].<ref name=":1">{{Cite web|url=https://yaleglobal.yale.edu/content/mate-vietnam-marriages|title=Mate-in-Vietnam Marriages {{!}} YaleGlobal Online|website=yaleglobal.yale.edu|access-date=2019-02-21}}</ref><ref>{{Cite journal|last1=Linh|first1=Trần Giang|last2=Hồng|first2=Khuất Thu|last3=Bélanger|first3=Danièle|title=Transnational Marriages between Vietnamese Women and Asian Men in Vietnamese Online Media|url=https://www.academia.edu/33784342|journal=Journal of Vietnamese Studies|language=en|volume=8|issue=2|pages=81–114|issn=1559-372X|doi=10.1525/vs.2013.8.2.81|hdl=20.500.11794/11588|year=2013|hdl-access=free}}</ref> [[Virginity]] is considered the most valuable trait in this business as [[Virginity|virgin]] Vietnamese women are often purchased at a higher price point.<ref name=":2">{{Cite web |last=Wray |first=Caroline |date=2014-12-05 |title=The Wife Market |url=http://tyglobalist.org/in-the-magazine/theme/the-wife-market/ |url-status=dead |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20190222041913/https://tyglobalist.org/in-the-magazine/theme/the-wife-market/ |archive-date=22 Feb 2019 |access-date=2019-02-21 |website=The Yale Globalist |language=en-US}}</ref> The price ranges differ among agencies; packages are valued between $5000<ref name=":2" /> and $22,000[[United States dollar|USD]]<ref name=":1" /> which includes a wedding, a visa, a health examination test, and a language course.<ref name=":2" /> According to surveys conducted in Korea, 65% of the Vietnamese respondents only completed primary or lower secondary school.<ref name=":0">{{Cite thesis |last=Lee |first=Eunsung |title=Politics of Cultural Proximity: Transnational Marriage and Family Making Among Vietnamese Women and South Korean Men in the 21st Century |url=https://rucore.libraries.rutgers.edu/rutgers-lib/45327/PDF/1/play/}}</ref> This lack of education can explain the poor social knowledge that allows this industry to grow.<ref name=":0" /> Vietnamese women [[prostitute]] themselves to foreigners. By selling sex for visas they are introduced to new duties which include labor and domestic servitude.<ref>{{Cite news|url=https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2017/aug/26/ready-married-kidnapped-brides-vietnam-china|title='I hope you're ready to get married': in search of Vietnam's kidnapped brides|last=Hodal|first=Kate|date=2017-08-26|work=The Guardian|access-date=2019-02-21|language=en-GB|issn=0261-3077}}</ref> The aforementioned quickie agencies usually group three to five men together to search for Vietnamese wives. This grouping of potential customers generates more profit, saving the organization approximately 50 to 60% in fees estimated to be around $85,000[[United States dollar|USD]] per trip.<ref name=":0" />
== Bride-buying in Africa == One thing many individuals in [[Africa]] disagree on is bride-buying. In Africa, bride-buying tends to work out against women's best interest, causing many to feel a sense of [[gender inequality]] as well as a lack in the [[women's rights]] sector.<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.researchgate.net/publication/311952761|title=Wives at the Market Place:Commercialisation of Lobola and Commodification of Women's bodies in Zimbabwe|last1=Chiwese|first1=Manase|website=researchgate.net}}</ref> In East Africa, some marriages involve transfer of valuable properties that are delivered from the families of the groom and gifted to the families of the bride. Certain phrases like bride-pricing, [[dowry]], [[Bride wealth|bride-wealth]], and some [[Indigenous peoples|indigenous]] words: "[[lobolo]]", "mala", "bogadi", and "chiko" all make up different codes of bride purchases.<ref>{{cite journal|last1=Pearsall|first1=Marion|title=Distributional Variations of Bride-Wealth in the East African Cattle Area|journal=Southwestern Journal of Anthropology|volume= 3|issue=(Spring, 1947)|pages= 15–31 (17 pages)|doi=10.1086/soutjanth.3.1.3628532|year=1947|s2cid=129949139}}</ref>
==Literature== Literature that delves into the selling women as brides includes titles such as [[Eho Hamara Jeevna]]<ref>{{Cite book|title=Eho Hamara Jeevna|last=Tiwana|first=Dalip|year=1968}}</ref> by Punjabi novelist [[Dalip Kaur Tiwana]], the play ''Ik Hor Ramayan''<ref>{{Cite book|title=Ik Ramayan Hor Ate Hor Ikangi|last=Aulakh|first=Ajmer|year=2014}}</ref> by playwright [[Ajmer Singh Aulakh]], ''Buying a Bride:An Engaging History of Mail-Order Matches<ref>{{Cite book|title=Buying a Bride:An Engaging History of Mail-Order Matches|last=Zug|first=Marcia A.|publisher=New York University Press|year=2016|isbn=978-0-8147-7181-5|location=New York}}</ref>'' by Marcia A. Zug, Object: Matrimony: The Risky Business Of Mail-Order Matchmaking On The Western Frontier<ref>{{Cite book|title=Object: Matrimony: The Risky Business Of Mail-Order Matchmaking On The Western Frontier|last=Enss|first=Chris|year=2012|publisher=TwoDot |isbn=978-0762773992}}</ref> by [[Chris Enss]], the [[Epic poetry|epic]] Vietnamese poem [[The Tale of Kieu]] by [[Nguyễn Du]], the novel Tat Den by Ngo Tat To,<ref>{{Cite book|url=https://catalogue.nla.gov.au/Record/1534036|title=Tat den: tieu thuyet|last=Ngo Tat To|date=1995|publisher=Van nghe Thanh pho Ho Chi Minh|edition= Tai ban|location=TP. Ho Chi Minh}}</ref> and the novel Buying the Bride by Penny Wylder.
==See also== * [[Mail-order bride]] * [[Picture bride]] * [[Bride kidnapping]] * [[Bride price]] * [[Arranged marriage]] * [[Arranged marriage in India]] * [[Human trafficking in India]] * [[Human trafficking in Vietnam]] * [[Human trafficking in the People's Republic of China]] * [[Wife selling]] * [[Wife selling (English custom)]] * [[The Bartered Bride]] * [[Female foeticide in India]] *[[Lobolo]]
==References== {{Reflist}}
== Further reading == * Gates, Hill. [https://www.jstor.org/pss/2783507 Buying brides in China - again] * Gregg, William. [https://web.archive.org/web/20101207083641/http://www.wildxangel.com/buyabride.htm "BUY A BRIDE"]
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