{{Short description|2005 film by Miranda July}} {{Use mdy dates|date=March 2024}} {{Infobox film | name = Me and You and Everyone We Know | image = Meandyouandeveryone.jpg | alt = | caption = Theatrical release poster | director = Miranda July | writer = Miranda July | producer = Gina Kwon | starring = {{Plainlist|<!-- Per poster billing block --> * John Hawkes * Miranda July * Miles Thompson * Brandon Ratcliff }} | cinematography = Chuy Chavez | editing = {{Plainlist| * Andrew Dickler * Charles Ireland }} | music = Michael Andrews | studio = {{Plainlist| * IFC Productions * FilmFour }} | distributor = {{Plainlist| * IFC Films (United States) * Optimum Releasing (United Kingdom) * Happinet Pictures (Japan) }} | released = {{Film date|2005|1||Sundance|2005|6|17|United States|2005|8|19|United Kingdom|2006|4|8|Japan}} | runtime = 91 minutes | country = {{Plainlist| * United States<ref name="afi">{{cite web |url=https://catalog.afi.com/Catalog/moviedetails/63524 |title=Me and You and Everyone We Know (2005) |website=AFI Catalog of Feature Films |access-date=December 16, 2024}}</ref><ref name="bfi">{{cite web |url=https://collections-search.bfi.org.uk/web/Details/ChoiceFilmWorks/150689638 |title=Me and You and Everyone We Know (2005) |publisher=British Film Institute |access-date=December 16, 2024}}</ref> * United Kingdom<ref name="afi"/><ref name="bfi"/> * Japan<ref name="afi"/><ref name="bfi"/> }} | language = English | budget = $800,000 | gross = $8 million<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.boxofficemojo.com/title/tt0415978/|title=Me and You and Everyone We Know (2005)|website=Box Office Mojo|access-date=December 16, 2024}}</ref> }} '''''Me and You and Everyone We Know''''' is a 2005 romantic comedy-drama film written and directed by Miranda July.<ref name="quietpower">{{Cite web |url=https://movieweb.com/miranda-july-movies/ |title=Miranda July: The Quiet Power of Her Indie Movies |date=2022-06-15 |website=MovieWeb |last=McQuirter |first=Rose |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220625225522/https://movieweb.com/miranda-july-movies/ |archive-date=2022-06-25 |url-status=live}}</ref> She also acts in the starring role, opposite John Hawkes. The film was the first major studio production for July, who had been known previously for her self-produced short films and performance art.
==Plot== The structure of the film consists of several subplots which all revolve around an intertwined cast of characters.
Richard is a shoe salesman and recently separated father of two. After being thrown out by his wife Pam, he gets an apartment of his own to share with his sons, 14-year-old Peter and six-year-old Robby. He meets Christine, a senior-cab driver and amateur video artist, while she takes her client to shop for shoes, and the two develop a fledgling romantic relationship.
Peter and Robby have a joint online chat, which Robby later depicts in another chat session as {{nobreak|"))<>(("}}, an emoticon that means "pooping back and forth, forever." This piques the interest of the woman at the other end and she suggests a face-to-face meeting.
Meanwhile, Christine wants to hand a videotape of her work to Nancy, the curator of a contemporary art museum, who impatiently tells her to submit it by mail; when she does, Nancy watches and accepts it. Nancy turns out to be the woman who was instant messaging with the brothers, and when she and Robby meet at a park, she realizes he is a child, kisses him and walks away.
Two of Richard's teenage neighbors, Heather and Rebecca, develop a playful relationship with a much older neighbor named Andrew, who works in the shoe store with Richard. He does not say much, but he continually leaves signs on his window detailing what he would do to each of them. As a result of this relationship, Heather and Rebecca ask Peter if they can practice oral sex on him, so that he can tell them which of the two does it better; so they do. He says both were exactly the same. Sylvie, the young daughter of a neighbor, peeks in the window, sees what is happening, and quickly leaves. Heather and Rebecca later come to Andrew's house intending to have sex with him as practice, but he appears afraid when he sees them through his window and he pretends not to be home.
Peter develops a friendship with Sylvie, having been introduced to the hope chest that she has. Christine and Richard display mutual acceptance of their attraction to each other. Robby eventually finds that the noise he had awoken to early every morning was that of an early-rising businessman tapping a quarter on a street sign pole. When Robby asks why he is doing it, he stops and turns around, says "I'm just passing the time", and gives Robby the quarter. When his bus drives away and Robby tries it out himself, the sun heightens with each tap, time literally passing as he does it.
==Cast== {{Cast listing| * John Hawkes as Richard Swersey * Miranda July as Christine Jesperson * Miles Thompson as Peter Swersey * Brandon Ratcliff as Robby Swersey * Carlie Westerman as Sylvie * Hector Elias as Michael * Brad William Henke as Andrew * Natasha Slayton as Heather * Najarra Townsend as Rebecca * Tracy Wright as Nancy Herrington * JoNell Kennedy as Pam * Ellen Geer as Ellen * Colette Kilroy as Sylvie's mom * James Kayten as Sylvie's dad * Jordan Potter as Shamus }}
==Production== The film was shot using a Sony HDW-F900 CineAlta high definition digital video camera.<ref name="cpnchavez">{{Cite web |url=https://www.creativeplanetnetwork.com/news-features/chuy-ch-vez-me-and-you-and-everyone-we-know-415183 |title=Chuy Chávez on 'Me and You and Everyone We Know' |date=2012-02-14 |website=Creative Planet Network |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180731031201/https://www.creativeplanetnetwork.com/news-features/chuy-ch-vez-me-and-you-and-everyone-we-know-415183 |archive-date=2018-07-31}}</ref>
On-line chat scenes were filmed with open-source Gaim software, now known as Pidgin.
==Music== The score, composed by Michael Andrews, was performed largely on a modified Casio SK-1 sampling keyboard.<ref>[https://www.amazon.com/Me-You-Everyone-Know-Score/dp/B0009R0WBG Michael Andrews-Me And You And Everyone We Know (Score)-Amazon.com Music]</ref> The soundtrack was released on July 12, 2005.<ref>{{Cite web | url = https://www.soundtrackcollector.com/title/72788/Me+And+You+And+Everyone+We+Know | title = Me And You And Everyone We Know (2005) |website=SoundtrackCollector | access-date = 5 January 2022}}</ref>
{{Track listing | headline = ''Me and You and Everyone We Know: Original Score'' track listing | extra_column = Artist | title1 = When I Call a Name | extra1 = Michael Andrews | length1 = 3:51 | title2 = Goldfish | extra2 = Michael Andrews | length2 = 1:55 | title3 = What's That Sound? | extra3 = Michael Andrews | length3 = 1:58 | title4 = Socks on Ears | extra4 = Michael Andrews | length4 = 3:01 | title5 = Signs | extra5 = Michael Andrews | length5 = 2:40 | title6 = 5 on a Joyride | extra6 = Cody Chesnutt | length6 = 3:33 | title7 = I'm Not Following You | extra7 = Michael Andrews | length7 = 3:10 | title8 = Library Chat | extra8 = Michael Andrews | length8 = 2:50 | title9 = Me and You Shoes | extra9 = Michael Andrews | length9 = 1:17 | title10 = Mirror | extra10 = Michael Andrews | length10 = 3:39 | title11 = Peter and Sylvie | extra11 = Michael Andrews | length11 = 3:21 | title12 = F*** | extra12 = Michael Andrews | length12 = 2:01 | title13 = Any Way That You Want Me | extra13 = Spiritualized | length13 = 6:27 | title14 = Boy Moves the Sun | extra14 = Michael Andrews | length14 = 3:38 | title15 = A Summer Long Since Passed | extra15 = Virginia Astley | length15 = 4:36 | title16 = Heaven in Five | extra16 = Michael Andrews | length16 = 2:44 }}
==Reception== {{Expand section|date=November 2025}} ''Me and You and Everyone We Know'' received largely positive reviews. On the review aggregator website Rotten Tomatoes, the film holds an approval rating of 82% based on 117 reviews, with an average rating of 7.4/10. The website's critics consensus reads, "Miranda July's debut feature is a charmingly offbeat and observant film about people looking for love."<ref>{{rotten-tomatoes|me_and_you_and_everyone_we_know|Me and You and Everyone We Know}}</ref> Metacritic, which uses a weighted average, assigned the film a score of 76 out of 100, based on 38 critics, indicating "generally favorable" reviews.<ref>{{Metacritic film|title=Me and You and Everyone We Know}}</ref>
The film won the Caméra d'Or at the 2005 Cannes Film Festival.<ref>{{cite web |url=https://www.festival-cannes.com/en/films/me-and-you-and-everyone-we-know |title=Me and You and Everyone We Know |publisher=Cannes Film Festival}}</ref>
Roger Ebert cited it as the fifth best film of the 2000s.<ref>{{cite web|title=The Best Films of the Decade |first=Roger |last=Ebert |author-link=Roger Ebert |url=http://www.rogerebert.com/rogers-journal/the-best-films-of-the-decade |website=RogerEbert.com |date=December 30, 2009 |access-date=June 9, 2013 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130515101343/http://www.rogerebert.com/rogers-journal/the-best-films-of-the-decade |archive-date=May 15, 2013 |url-status=live}}</ref>
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==External links== * {{IMDb title}} * {{Mojo title}} * {{Metacritic film}} * {{Rotten Tomatoes}} * [https://www.criterion.com/current/posts/6924-me-and-you-and-everyone-we-know-punk-cars-bodies-movies Me and You and Everyone We Know: Punk Cars Bodies Movies] – an essay by Sara Magenheimer at The Criterion Collection * [https://www.criterion.com/current/posts/6922-me-and-you-and-everyone-we-know-performance-rites Me and You and Everyone We Know: Performance Rites] – an essay by Lauren Groff at The Criterion Collection
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