{{Short description|American poet (1888–1941)}} thumb|Kilmer as a young woman '''Aline Murray Kilmer''' (August 1, 1888 – October 1, 1941), was an American poet, children's book author, and essayist, and the wife and widow of poet and journalist Joyce Kilmer (1886-1918). The couple attended [https://rutgersprep.org Rutgers College Preparatory School] and married shortly after his graduation from Columbia University in 1908.
In their ten-year marriage her husband had achieved fame as a poet, literary critic and among Catholic circles as America's most prominent Catholic writer. After his death in World War I, she began publishing her own poetry and a few children's books. Today, copies of her works can still be found, some on [https://archive.org/search?query=aline+murray+kilmer archive.org].
==Biography==
[[File:KILMER Aline Murray Grave St Josephs Cemetery Newton NJ.jpg|thumb|right|The gravestone of Aline Kilmer, located in Saint Joseph's Cemetery in Newton, New Jersey]] She was born as Aline Murray on August 1, 1888, in Norfolk, Virginia, the daughter of Ada ({{nee}} Foster) Murray, a poet; and Kenton C. Murray, editor of the ''Norfolk Landmark'' newspaper. Ada Murray remarried on February 22, 1900 in Metuchen, New Jersey to Henry Mills Alden, the managing editor of ''Harper's Magazine''; he became Aline's stepfather.<ref>[http://www.jhalpin.com/metuchen/history/mr022400.htm Profile], ''Metuchen Recorder'', February 24, 1900; accessed August 19, 2006.</ref>
Aline Murray was educated at the Rutgers College Grammar School (now Rutgers Preparatory School) in New Brunswick, New Jersey, and the Vail-Deane School in Elizabeth, New Jersey, the latter institution from which she was graduated in 1908.<ref>[http://www.bartleby.com/271/1001.html Biographical Notes] from Rittenhouse, Jessie B. ''The Second Book of Modern Verse'' (1922) at [http://www.bartleby.com], accessed August 19, 2006.</ref>
Shortly after graduation, Aline married Alfred Joyce Kilmer on June 9, 1908, after he was graduated from Columbia University in New York City. The pair had five children: Kenton Sinclair Kilmer (1909-1995), Rose Kilburn Kilmer (1912-1917), Deborah Clanton Kilmer (1914–1999; who became a nun, "Sister Michael", at Saint Benedict Monastery, St. Joseph, Minnesota), Michael Barry Kilmer (1916-1927) and Christopher Kilmer (1917-1984). <ref>Kilmer, Miriam A.[http://www.risingdove.com/Kilmer/FAQ.asp Kilmer Genealogy Chart], risingdove.com. Retrieved July 7, 2013.</ref>
Their daughter Rose was stricken with an infantile paralysis shortly after her birth, a crisis which led Joyce and Aline to convert to Roman Catholicism.<ref name="AmericaMag1941Obituary">"A Tribute to Aline Kilmer" by Francis X. Talbot in ''America'' October 18, 1941, pp. 44-46.</ref> Shortly before Joyce's deployment to France in World War I, Rose Kilburn Kilmer died, predeceasing both her parents. During his deployment, her husband was killed in action during the Second Battle of the Marne near Muercy Farm, beside the Ourcq River near the French village of Seringes-et-Nesles on July 30, 1918 at the age of 31.<ref>Staff. "Joyce Kilmer Slain on the West Front; Former Member of Times Staff Had Won Sergeantcy In The 165th of Infantry. His Writings Well Known Author Was Rutgers And Columbia Graduate — Several Veterans Of The 69th Killed. His Lusitania Poem. Fought At The Marne. Veteran Of 69th Killed. Lieut. Harwood 'Doing Fine'. Parents Receive Letter Written After Date Of Reported Death" in ''The New York Times'' (August 18, 1918).</ref> In 1927, her second son, Michael Barry Kilmer, predeceased her.<ref name="AmericaMag1941Obituary"/>
After Joyce was killed in action, his widow turned to publishing her poetry and to authoring children's books. Her poetry has been described as "subtle, delicate, and somewhat subdued — certainly far from gayety", and with a tone of "ironic disillusionment" compared to her husband's as "direct, vigorous, gay."<ref name="AmericaMag1941Obituary"/>
==Death== In her final three years, Aline Kilmer suffered from an excruciating illness,<ref name="AmericaMag1941Obituary"/> lung cancer.<ref>as per her granddaughter, Miriam Kilmer.</ref> She died at her home, "Whitehall", in Stillwater, New Jersey, on October 1, 1941, aged 52, and was interred at Saint Joseph's Catholic Cemetery in Newton, New Jersey.<ref name="AmericaMag1941Obituary"/>
Five lines from her poem, "Sanctuary", are inscribed on her gravestone:<blockquote><poem>There all bright passing beauty is held forever<br>Free from the sense of tears, to be loved without regret<br>There we shall find at their source music and love and laughter,<br>Colour and subtle fragrance and soft incredible textures:<br>Be sure we shall find what our weary hearts desire.<ref>Gravestone inscription for Aline Murray Kilmer in Saint Joseph's Roman Catholic Cemetery, Newton (Sussex County), New Jersey; visited June 24, 2013.</ref><ref>Kilmer, Aline. [https://books.google.com/books?id=N6kiAQAAMAAJ&dq=there+all+bright+passing+beauty&pg=RA3-PA28 "Sanctuary"], in ''Hearst International,'' Volume 41. (New York: International Publications, 1922), 22:28.</ref></poem></blockquote>
==Works== {{Library resources box|by=yes|onlinebooksby=yes|viaf=11330921}} * 1919: ''Candles That Burn'' (poetry) * 1921: ''Vigils'' (poetry) * 1923: ''Hunting a Hair Shirt and Other Spiritual Adventures'' (essays) {{ISBN|0-8369-2697-8}} * 1925: ''The Poor Kings Daughter and Other Verse'' (poetry) * 1927: ''Emmy, Nicky and Greg'' (children's book) * 1929: ''A Buttonwood Summer'' (children's book) * 1929: ''Selected Poems'' (poetry) *''To Two Little Sisters of the Poor'' (date unknown)
==References== {{Reflist}}
==External links== * [http://www.risingdove.com/Kilmer/Trees.asp Tribute page] at ''Rising Dove'' (a site by his granddaughter) * [http://www.lib.udel.edu/ud/spec/findaids/teasdale.htm Sara Teasdale's Letters to Joyce and Aline Kilmer] located in Special Collections of the University of Delaware Library. * [https://web.archive.org/web/20070311060930/http://rpo.library.utoronto.ca/poet/439.html Selected Poetry of Aline Murray Kilmer] at the University of Toronto * {{Internet Archive author |sname=Aline Murray Kilmer}} * {{Librivox author |id=9388}}
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