69 (sex position)

{{multiple image | align = right | direction =  | background color =  | total_width = 550 | caption_align = center | header_background = | header_align =  | header =  | image1 = Wiki-sixtynine.png| | alt1 = | link1 = File:Wiki-sixtynine.png | thumbtime1 = | caption1 =  | image2 = Lesbian_sexual_position_3.jpg | alt2 = | link2 = File:Lesbian_sexual_position_3.jpg | thumbtime2 = | caption2 =  | image3 = Wiki-sixtynine-male.jpg | alt3 = | link3 = File:Wiki-sixtynine-male.jpg | thumbtime3 = | caption3 =  | footer_background = | footer_align = center | footer = Depictions of mutual oral sex in the 69 position.{{break}}'''Left:''' a heterosexual couple, '''Center:''' a lesbian couple, '''Right:''' a gay couple }} '''69''' or '''sixty-nine''' is a sex position in which two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals, allowing each partner to simultaneously perform oral sex on the other.<ref name="little">{{cite book|last=Rojiere|first=Jean|title=The Little Book of Sex|publisher=Ulysses Press|year=2001|isbn=1-56975-305-9}}</ref><ref>Julie Coleman, "Love, sex, and marriage: a historical thesaurus", Rodopi, 1999, {{ISBN|90-420-0433-9}}, p.214</ref><ref name=aggrawal>{{cite book |last=Aggrawal |first=Anil|author-link=Anil Aggrawal|title=Forensic and Medico-legal Aspects of Sexual Crimes and Unusual Sexual Practices |year=2009 |publisher=CRC Press |location=Boca Raton |isbn=978-1-4200-4308-2|page=380}}</ref> The participants are thus mutually inverted like in the number 69 (<small>{{rotate text|90|69}}</small>), hence the code name.<ref name=aggrawal/><ref>René James Hérail, Edwin A. Lovatt, "Dictionary of Modern Colloquial French", Routledge, 1990, {{ISBN|0-415-05893-7}}, p.484</ref> In this case, the numerals 6 and 9 are treated more as pictographic symbols than as numerical representations, with the bulbous part representing the heads of the performers.

The name is a translation of the original French, {{lang|fr|'''soixante-neuf'''}},<ref name="collins">{{cite web |title=Soixante-neuf definition and meaning {{!}} Collins English Dictionary |url=https://www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/soixante-neuf |access-date=8 July 2018 |website=www.collinsdictionary.com |publisher=Collins English Dictionary |language=en}}</ref> which is also sometimes borrowed directly into English. The concept is that both partners can experience sexual stimulation and oral sensation simultaneously, but this can also distract those who try to focus solely on their own pleasure from giving oral sex well. The position can also be awkward for partners who are not similar in height.<ref>{{Cite book |last1=Rathus |first1=Spencer A. |title=Human sexuality in a world of diversity |last2=Nevid |first2=Jeffrey S. |last3=Fichner-Rathus |first3=Lois |last4=Herold |first4=Edward S. |last5=McKenzie |first5=Sue Wicks |publisher=Pearson Education |year=2005 |isbn=0-205-79029-1 |edition=2nd |location=New Jersey, USA |page=221}}</ref>

==History== {{stack|thumb|Indian art depicting two men performing 69 in a complicated position.}} The term ''sixty-nine'' or ''soixante-neuf'' for mutual simultaneous oral-genital stimulation is an English translation of the euphemistic French term "''soixante-neuf''" (i.e., "sixty-nine").{{r|collins}} The term "''soixante-neuf''" has not been traced any earlier than the ''Whore's Catechisms'' published in the 1790s in France, usually attributed to an early leader of the French Revolution, Mlle. Théroigne de Méricourt.<ref>Legman, 1969, p. 289.</ref>

Legman has described how the concept dates back to at least ancient Roman times:

{{quote|"The earliest unequivocal representation of the sixty-nine appears to be that on an oil-lamp preserved in the Munich Museum (Deutsches Museum), and first reproduced in Dr. Gaston Vorberg's ... portfolio, ''Die Erotik der Antiken in Kleinkunst und Keramik'' (Munich, 1921) plate 58, showing the woman lying on top of the man. Dr. Vorberg gives this ... to be of the period of the Roman Caesars ... . However, another oil-lamp of the same kind, showing the sixty-nine almost identically ... is more recently reproduced as a full-color plate, in Prof. Jean Marcadé's ''Eros Kalos'' (English-language edition, Geneva : Nagel, 1965), facing page 58, in ... lamps preserved in the Heracleion Museum in Greece."<ref>Legman, 1969, p. 290.</ref>}}

Legman has also elaborated on Hindu representations:

{{quote|"A Hindu temple-sculpture from the sacred caverns of the island of Elephanta, near Mumbai in India, showing this position with the man actually standing, and holding the woman hanging down in this from his shoulders, was ... brought to England in the late eighteenth century ... . ... this sculptured fragment ... is both discussed and illustrated in Richard Payne Knight's ''A Discourse on the Worship of Priapus'', privately issued for the Dilettanti Society of London in 1786 ... . The illustration in question is a detail engraving given in Payne Knight's plate XI; and the full form of this sculptured group is ... given as plate XXIV."<ref>Legman, 1969, p. 301.</ref>}}

The ''Kama Sutra'' mentions this sex position, albeit by a different name: "When a man and woman lie down in an inverted order, i.e. with the head of the one towards the feet of the other and carry on [mouth] congress, it is called the 'congress of a crow'."<ref>{{Cite web |url=http://www.indohistory.com/kamasutra_sexual_orientation_chapter_9.html |title=History of India, Kamasutra Sexual Orientation Chapter 9 |publisher=Indohistory |access-date=2015-01-06 |archive-date=2020-02-03 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200203065946/http://indohistory.com/kamasutra_sexual_orientation_chapter_9.html |url-status=usurped }}</ref>

=== Internet meme === In reference to the sex position, "69" has become an Internet meme, where users will respond to any occurrence of the number with the word "nice" and draw specific attention to it.<ref>{{Cite web |date=2014-10-04 |title=69 / Sixty-Nine |url=https://knowyourmeme.com/sensitive/memes/69-sixty-nine |access-date=2026-04-24 |website=Know Your Meme |language=en}}</ref> This is meant to sarcastically imply that the reference to the sex position was intentional. Because of its association with the sex position and resulting meme, "69" has become known as "the sex number" in these communities,<ref name="Feldman 2016">{{cite web|last=Feldman|first=Brian|date=2016-06-09|title=Why 69 Is the Internet's Coolest Number (Sex)|url=https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2016/06/why-69-is-the-internets-coolest-number-sex.html|access-date=2020-09-04|website=Intelligencer}}</ref> similar to the number 420, which is known as "the weed number".<ref>{{cite news|title=Why is 420 associated with marijuana? The weed number explained|newspaper=The Indianapolis Star|date=2023-04-20|via=Yahoo! News|url=https://www.yahoo.com/news/why-420-associated-marijuana-weed-080007881.html|type=video slideshow|access-date=2024-05-30}}</ref><ref name="adams2018">{{cite web |url=https://www.indystar.com/story/news/2018/04/19/420-day-freebies-deals-meaning-why-420-associated-weed/530436002/ |title=420 Day 2019: All the buzz about 'Weed Day' including events in Indianapolis |first=Dwight |last=Adams |date=2018-04-19 |work=IndyStar |accessdate=2025-06-16 }}</ref>

==Variations== Variations of the 69 position include mutual anilingus or "double rimming", and digital penetration of either partner's anus or vagina.

==See also== * {{anl|Cunnilingus}} * {{anl|Fellatio}}

==Notes== {{Reflist|30em}}

==References== {{Commons category}}

* {{Cite book |author=Gershon Legman |author-link=Gershon Legman |title=Oragenitalism: Oral Techniques in Genital Excitation |location=New York |publisher=The Julian Press Inc. |year=1969}}

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